What are the risks with abortion?
Every medical procedure has risks and complications that may happen. With abortion, complications are rare and most are easy to resolve. It is one of the safest outpatient procedures you can have. At our office, you can talk about abortion and its risks at the time of your visit.
Will I be able to have children later on?
Yes, you will be able to have children in the future. This is true even if you have had more than one abortion. While complications with an abortion can affect your ability to have children, abortion has a very low complication rate. Our office’s complication rate is extremely low.
How do I know if I am getting good medical care?
Like with other areas of health care, not all abortion providers are the same. You can get a referral to a provider from a trusted physician, family planning clinic or friend. Be sure to check if the provider is a member of one of the national professional organizations like the Abortion Care Network (www.abortioncarenetwork.org) or the National Abortion Federation (www.prochoice.org). Calling the provider's office is also helpful. Ask about their licensing – particularly ask if they are licensed by their state or local health department. See how their fees compare to other providers in your area. Notice if the staff sounds knowledgeable and willing to take their time with you. Ask if the provider has a web site and go online to see the type of information they provide.
Can I have my significant other with me during the visit?
At our office, we always strive to put you first. Your significant other, or whomever accompanied you to your appointment, will not be permitted to be with you during the appointment due to state and privacy regulations. Your significant other is welcome to wait for you in our waiting room, or leave and return to pick you up.
When will I get my next menstrual period?
You will get your next period within 4 to 8 weeks after the procedure. Bleeding may also stop and start during the process. All of this is normal but the bleeding you have right after an abortion is NOT your period. Know that you CAN get pregnant right after an abortion, before your next period starts. Always use a method of pregnancy prevention when you have sexual intercourse. At our office, we will talk with you about contraception options and help you choose a method that will work best for you.
How soon can I have sexual intercourse?
Generally, you can start having sexual intercourse about 2 weeks after your abortion. One of our medical staff will talk with you about this and also help you with choosing a contraceptive method. Always use a method of pregnancy prevention when you have sexual intercourse. You CAN get pregnant right after an abortion, before your next period starts.
What will I feel emotionally after my visit?
Every woman has her own emotions and feelings after an abortion. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to feel. Some women feel very relieved. Other women may feel sadness, loss and anger. It is also normal to feel relieved, sad and angry at the same time. Our office’s experienced and caring staff is able to talk with you about your emotions both before and after your visit. You can also go online or call organizations that offer free telephone counseling before and after abortion – Backline at www.yourbackline.org or 888.493.0092; Exhale at www.4exhale.org or 866.439.4253.
Do my parents have to know about my abortion?
In Rhode Island, any woman under the age of 18 must have the written consent of a parent or legal guardian to obtain an abortion. If you feel that you are absolutely not able to talk to or get support from a parent or legal guardian, you may get what is called a “judicial bypass” from the Court. This means that you, as a minor, are deemed mature enough by a judge to make your own decision about abortion. Our staff is very knowledgeable in this process and can assist you with getting a judicial bypass.
What is the abortion pill and is it the same as the morning after pill?
No, they are not the same thing. The abortion pill, also called Mifeprex, Mifepristone and RU 486, is a prescription drug used to end an early pregnancy. This is commonly called medical abortion where you pass the pregnancy at home. We offer medical abortion at our office and can talk with you to see if this is an option for you.
The morning after pill is used to prevent conception (pregnancy) from occurring after you have had unprotected sex. It causes you to shed the lining of your uterus, or bleed, preventing pregnancy from occurring. It should be taken within 120 hours (5 days) after having unprotected sex, but is most effective if taken within 72 hours (3 days). The morning after pill is also called emergency contraception (EC). You can get EC over-the-counter at your local pharmacy, at family planning clinics or through your health care provider.